演讲与歌唱-第31章
第30章 说到别人时要小心
演讲与歌唱-第31章
Chap. 30—Care in Speaking of Others
演讲与歌唱-第31章
别人的优点——要培养说别人好话的习惯。要多想到与你们相交之人的长处，尽少注意他们的缺点和过失。在心里想抱怨某人的言行时，却要赞扬他生活或品格上的美德。要养成感恩之心。要赞美上帝赐下基督为我们受死的奇妙之爱。--MH492.{VSS151.1}[1]
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Good Qualities in Others—Cultivate the habit of speaking well of others. Dwell upon the good qualities of those with whom you associate, and see as little as possible of their errors and failings. When tempted to complain of what someone has said or done, praise something in that person’s life or character. Cultivate thankfulness. Praise God for His wonderful love in giving Christ to die for us.—The Ministry of Healing, 492.{VSS 151.1}[1]
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受试探之人的得救之道——从来没有一个人因斥责和批评而变得更好。告诉一个受试探的人他的罪行是什么决不会激励他下决心要做得更好。要向犯错灰心的人指出主。凡到祂面前来的人，祂都能拯救到底。向他说明他可以成为何等的人。要告诉他，他本身没有什么能令上帝喜悦的，但基督为他而死，使他可以在爱子里得蒙悦纳。--2MCP453.{VSS151.2}[2]
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A Way of Salvation for the Tempted—No one is ever made better by denunciation and recrimination. To tell a tempted soul of his guilt in no way inspires him with a determination to do better. Point the erring, discouraged one to Him who is able to save to the uttermost all who come to Him. Show him what he may become. Tell him that there is in him nothing that recommends him to God, but that Christ died for him that he might be accepted in the Beloved.—Mind, Character, and Personality 2:453.{VSS 151.2}[2]
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不要说傲慢或控告的话——讲话是一种奇妙的才干。比起挑剔找错，愉快地说到或关心上帝的血所买来的产业会使上帝多得荣耀。乌云会来；邪恶的言语会来自那些与真理为敌的人，要压迫义人；但任何一个信徒都决不要说傲慢和控告的话反对别的信徒。我们岂没有上帝足够的表示和福气来使我们口中充满对祂的感谢赞美并且荣耀祂吗？[3]
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No Haughty or Accusing Words—Speech is a wonderful talent. How much more will God be glorified with pleasant speech of, or in regard to, His blood-bought heritage than with faultfinding. Clouds will come; wicked speech will come from those who are enemies of the truth, to oppress the righteous; but never let haughty and accusing words come from any believers against other believers. Have we not enough of God’s tokens and blessings to keep our mouth filled with thanksgiving and praise, and glorify Him?{VSS 151.3}[3]
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你们对自以为是错了的人说出反感诋毁的话是合理的吗？我们自己难道从来没有犯过错误吗？我们难道从未处在沮丧的深渊吗？愿上帝帮助我们谨记魔鬼多么努力地引诱我们的弟兄站在魔鬼一边并且设法施行伤害和毁灭。当受试探要说挑剔的话时，要开始唱：“你们要赞美耶和华。”--Ms129,1901.{VSS152.1}[4]
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Will you be justified in uttering expressions of ill feeling and ill repute against those whom we suppose have erred? Have we never made any mistakes ourselves? Have we never been in the slough of despond? God help us to bear in mind how hard it is when tempted of the devil to have our own brethren step on the side of the devil, and try to hurt and destroy. When tempted to speak words of faultfinding, begin to sing, “Praise ye the Lord.”—Manuscript 129, 1901.{VSS 152.1}[4]
演讲与歌唱-第31章
谄媚使人心变坏——一切谄媚奉承都应抛弃，因为阿谀奉承乃是撒但的工作。可怜、软弱、堕落的人类通常都以为自己足能承当，在这方面无需帮助。奉承你们的传道人是不合适的。这使人心变坏而不会使人柔和谦卑；可是男男女女却喜爱受人称赞，传道人也常常喜爱受人称赞。他们的虚荣心因此得到满足，但这已证明是多人的咒诅。责备比奉承更可取。--2T338.{VSS152.2}[5]
演讲与歌唱-第31章
Flattery As Mind Perversion—All flattery should be put away, for it is Satan’s work to flatter. Poor, weak, fallen men generally think enough of themselves and need no help in this direction. Flattering your ministers is out of place. It perverts the mind and does not lead to meekness and humility; yet men and women love to be praised, and it is too frequently the case that ministers love it. Their vanity is gratified by it, but it has proved a curse to many. Reproof is more to be prized than flattery.—Testimonies for the Church 2:338.{VSS 152.2}[5]
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不会实现的盼望——对未奉献的心来说，奉承的话是甜美悦耳的，而且有些自以为站得稳的人，因决不会实现的盼望而昏了头，被引诱而痴迷了。这样就铸成了大错。大家都当合宜地思想并讲说自己的能力，又当小心，不要助长别人的骄傲和自负。--5T478.{VSS152.3}[6]
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Unrealized Hopes—Flattering words are sweet to the unconsecrated heart, and some who think they are standing firm, are dazed, allured, and intoxicated with hopes that will never be realized. A great wrong has been done in this way. All should think and speak modestly of their own capabilities, and should be careful not to encourage pride and self-esteem in others.—Testimonies for the Church 5:478.{VSS 152.3}[6]
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夸奖的危险——有些人不断地闲聊作假见证，撒布不和的种子，挑起争端。上天把这等人看作撒但最有效的仆人。可是受到伤害的人，所处的危险远远比不上他因表面上取得的一点成功而受到夸奖赞扬那么大。表面友善的夸奖比责备更加危险。{VSS153.1}[7]
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Commendation a Danger—There are men who are ever talking and gossiping and bearing false witness, who sow the seeds of discord and engender strife. Heaven looks upon this class as Satan’s most efficient servants. But the man who is injured is in a far less dangerous position than when fawned upon and extolled for a few of his efforts which appear successful. The commendation of apparent friends is more dangerous than reproach.{VSS 153.1}[7]
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每一个称赞自己的人，都抹掉了他最佳努力的光彩。真正高贵的人不会屈尊对仇敌的诬告显示愤怒。每一句诬告的话都不会带来损害，反而只能加强其所无力推翻的事业。--4T607.{VSS153.2}[8]
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Every man who praises himself brushes the luster from his best efforts. A truly noble character will not stoop to resent the false accusations of enemies; every word spoken falls harmless, for it strengthens that which it cannot overthrow.—Testimonies for the Church 4:607.{VSS 153.2}[8]
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真理在心里，真理在口中——我们应当多么谨慎地使我们的言语行为与上帝所交给我们的神圣真理完全相符啊！……你们在一起交往时，要谨慎自己的言语。要让你们的谈话具有不会需要悔改的性质。……你们若有爱真理的心，就必谈论真理。你们就会谈论你们在耶稣里的洪福之望。你们心中若有爱，就必设法在至圣的真道上坚固和造就你们的弟兄。若是有一句话说出来有害于你朋友或弟兄的品格，就不要鼓励这种邪恶的言论。这是仇敌的工作。要仁慈地提醒讲话的人，上帝的道禁止那种谈论。--RH1888年6月5日.{VSS153.3}[9]
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Truth in the Heart, Truth on the Lips—How careful we should be, that our words and actions are all in harmony with the sacred truth that God has committed to us! ... When you are associated together, be guarded in your words. Let your conversation be of such a nature that you will have no need of repentance.... If the love of the truth is in your heart, you will talk of the truth. You will talk of the blessed hope that you have in Jesus. If you?have love in your heart, you will seek to establish and build up your brother in the most holy faith. If a word is dropped that is detrimental to the character of your friend or brother, do not encourage this evilspeaking. It is the work of the enemy. Kindly remind the speaker that the Word of God forbids that kind of conversation.—The Review and Herald, June 5, 1888.{VSS 153.3}[9]
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